Prepuce

Kent Leatham

Many earwig species display maternal care, which is uncommon among insects. Female earwigs may care for their eggs, and even after they have hatched as nymphs will continue to watch over offspring until their second molt.
B. K. Tyagi and Vijay Veer, Entomology in the Doon Valley

Misdirection.

Look over here. 

Watch the eyes,

not the other end.

The first thing I lost was so small

she doesn't even remember it.

Surely, I ask, she glimpsed it at least

once before they threw it out?

Perhaps, I suggest, she could describe

others she's seen to compare with it?

But 

no.

It made no mark on her.

Left no scar for her.

Had no claim to her.

Was no part of her.

She can't forget

what she never knew.

I can't forget

its absence each day.

A harmless procedure for a baby, they say.

Just a little pinch. 

Like losing someone

else's name.